There are two kinds of opportunities to attract women; the obvious ones and the hidden ones. Situations such as blind dates, women from work or school and in some cases online dating sites can be considered obvious opportunities to attract women. Just about everything else would be considered a hidden one.

This is why for most men High School and College is the easiest time to meet and attract women. It is in those years you a natural setting that gave you an obvious opportunity to attract women. If you take school away it leaves you with two opportunities that are obvious and unnatural (blind dates and online dating sites), as well as Work. In most cases your job is going to make it very uncomfortable to date a co-worker.

Now you are left with all of these hidden opportunities and if you where saying to yourself earlier that it was hard for you to attract women during your school years, it is going to be doubly hard for you because for whatever reason many obvious opportunities to attract women you chose to either hide or ignore.

So how do you find those hidden opportunities to attract women?

Fist thing you need to do is get a notebook and for an entire week just become aware of all situations that you find yourself in which involve women; gas station, on the phone, stores, movies, restaurants, anywhere you are and you see a woman make a note of it. No matter if she is your type or not, old or young. Now I don't want you to do anything that first week except notice perhaps after 2 or 3 days you will begin to realize just how many hidden opportunities you encounter.

Yes, some of these opportunities are going to be for naught, some women will not be interested, some will have significant others, the list will go on and on. Yet remember two things. 1.) Hidden opportunities take time to find sometimes and 2.) Consider all those misses as practice for when the real hidden opportunity arrives.

There is no such thing as failure only feedback when it comes to attracting and dating women. The amount of hidden opportunities to attract women will always be greater than the obvious ones. Whatever it takes get this area of your life together.