When your boyfriend or girlfriend is suffering from a mental illness and depression is an illness you can find yourself needing therapy. Issues can come up that you might need to discuss with someone. There are a few ways that you can go about looking for help. The first is to speak with a therapist of your own. This can be the same one that your boyfriend or girlfriend sees (opening the door to group therapy) or it can be another one, who is independent of your significant others condition. Another thing that you can do is look for a support group, try to find other people in your same condition. If you have that group, then you will have people who understand what you are going though and can empathize. The difference between this group and a therapist is that you will be expected to offer support for other members. Also, you will be dealing with people who have the same or similar experiences, which will be able to give you first-hand help from people who have been there. Sometimes, you might want to find online help. This provides an anonymity that you might find refreshing. You might also want the anonymity so nobody knows that your partner is suffering from this condition, as they may want to keep this a secret. |